Awakening the Masculine Heart: A Men’s Mindfulness Retreat
Meditation, Dharma, Embodiment & the Art of Living Awake

Overview
There comes a point in every man’s life when outer success, status, and striving no longer satisfy. The old maps stop working. The strategies that once protected you now keep you small. What remains is the invitation to wake up — to turn toward the truth of your own experience with courage and curiosity.

This retreat is for men who are ready to meet themselves fully — in stillness and in movement. Through the practices of meditation, self-inquiry, and embodied awareness, we explore what it means to live as a whole man: grounded, awake, and connected to heart, purpose, and freedom. You are not here to perform masculinity. You are here to embody it — as presence, integrity, and fierce compassion.

“Freedom begins the moment you stop running from yourself.” - Evangelos

What to Expect
This meditative retreat is a deep dive into the Dharma of the masculine heart — a journey of awakening that unites stillness and fire with strength and tenderness. Through guided meditation, Dharma talks, mindful boxing, dyads and men’s circles, you will:

Cut through the stories that keep you small, defensive, or disconnected.
Condition your inner and outer self with Mindful Boxing — a moving meditation where body meets mind and effort meets ease. In the ring of awareness, pressure becomes the teacher. Each breath is a doorway from reaction to non-reaction — from defense to vulnerability.
Transform reactivity into pure awareness, anger into aliveness, and fear into conscious choice.
Learn to hold boundaries with an open heart — firm yet fluid, strong yet kind.
Cultivate the art of relational presence, learning to stay open even when triggered or challenged.
Discover your innate leadership — not through dominance, but through awareness, authenticity, and service.

**Expect periods of noble silence, embodied meditation, deep sharing, and honest reflection. This is not a retreat of escape but of return — to your own center, your body, your values, and your truth.

Evangelos and Jeoffrey’s work is grounded in direct experience, not belief — a path of awakening through embodiment, awareness, and the living intelligence of the heart.

Who This Retreat Is For

• Men seeking a profound spiritual odyssey grounded in real life, not spiritual bypass.
• Men looking to integrate power, warm-heartedness, and purpose with awareness
• Men navigating transitions — in relationship, work, fatherhood, or life vision.
• Men longing for authentic connection with other men and the courage to be fully seen. (In this modern world of intense loneliness, men greatly benefit from spending time in the company of other men)
• Men ready to stop running and finally meet themselves.

No meditation or movement experience is required — only a sincere willingness to show up.

Practices Include

• Silent sitting meditation
• Conscious movement and somatic exploration (Mindful Boxing)
• Dharma talks and guided inquiry
• Embodied men’s circles and hot seat work
• Partner and small group exercises
• Nature walks and contemplation
• Taking radical responsibility for your life and your relationships as they are right now
• Getting out of your victim mindset that blames the other person for how you feel and what choices you think you have

The Invitation
To awaken the masculine heart is to remember that strength and tenderness are not opposites — they are allies.
To live awake is to move through the world undefended, rooted in truth, and open to joy, creativity and love.
This retreat is an initiation — a call to integrate what you already know to be true. To live from your center. To lead from the inside out. To meet the edge of freedom — and step through.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS?

• Increased self-awareness and peace of mind.
• Embody stillness and calm and learn to easily access these energies when life inevitably speeds up and gets more active.
• Return to daily life with a resourced and integrated center body.
• Access the spacious, effortless, openness of your authentic self.
• Increased skill and ability to interrupt the habitual grasping mind.
• Cultivate compassionate communication through group - relational development.
• Radically reduce tension and anxiety.
• Increase vitality & creativity.
• Sleep without interruption or body stress.
• Eradicate inaction and sluggishness.
• Easier to make difficult decisions

Warning: You may feel so empowered and light after this retreat that your friends might not recognize your grounded new self. You might finally have the courage to make that bold decision you have been delaying for years.


Evangelos Diavolitsis is a Dharma teacher, transformational coach, and conscious movement facilitator rooted in the Namgyal lineage, with over two decades of experience leading retreats worldwide. A descendant of Spartan warriors, he brings their spirit of discipline and clarity into the path of awakening.
He bridges the sacred and the practical—where meditation sharpens awareness, movement tempers the heart, and purpose is forged in the fires of daily life
Guiding others to live with presence and curiosity, his work has touched seekers and innovators alike—from Google to Engineers Without Borders. His teachings call men to meet challenges directly, with courageous, compassionate feet on the ground. His mantra: “Stand Still in the Storm.” -- fourwaystofreedom.com


Jeoffrey Feller is a father, martial artist, and former Royal Netherlands Marine whose path of service began in the crucible of physical and mental endurance. He has been on a heart-core spiritual path for over a decade, seeing planet Earth as one vast school where hard lessons become gateways to liberation.

From his work in youth prisons to psychiatric hospitals, he discovered that true strength lies in connection, radical honesty and an open heart. With over 30 years of experience in martial arts, he now teaches mindful boxing—a practice where movement mirrors mind and every punch reveals truth. His mantra: “How you fight is who you are.” -- realconnection.nl

Agenda

Sampe Schedule (subject to change)

Arrival Day
14.00 - 17:30 Arrivals - Free Time - Enjoy your own rhythm
17:30 - 19:00 Open Session
19:00 - 20:00 Dinner
20:30 - 22.00 Evening Session

Daily Schedule
07:30 - 08:30 Morning Meditation
08:30 - 09:30 Breakfast (in Silence)
10:30 - 12:30 Session 2
13:00 - 14:00 Lunch
15:00 - 16:45 Session 3 (Mindful Boxing)
17:00 - 17:30 Tea Break
17.30 - 19.00 Session 4
19:00 - 20:00 Dinner
20:30 - 21.30 Session 4

Departure Day
07:30 - 08:30 Morning Meditation
08:30 - 09:30 Breakfast (in Silence)
By 10:00 Check Out
10:30 - 12:30 Closing Session
12:30 - 13:30 Lunch
14:00 - Departure

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